Pre Schools: What experience do they have?

Special needs pre-schools are normally suggested by the school district. We placed Ben in a typical pre-schools at first because they said that they could handle a "special needs kids". And they were good but they didn't have enough hours. So we had to move him to another school. Unfortunately they were not as good. The classroom teachers were expecting too much of Ben and even the other students, they would ask his ‘positive’ role models (in front of him), “did anyone in the class scare them and if so they needed to tell the teacher now (glancing at Ben as they said this). We took him out of there immediately. Then we went to his last pre-school and even the school district was impressed (it was the most expensive one). The best choice is to pick a pre-school that already has other special needs in the school. You don't want to be their ‘TEST’ case. Traci- Sachum NY